life

July 1, 2025

Alone, Forgotten, and Found Too Late – ⚠️ Trigger Warning: This post discusses death, loneliness, hoarding, and graphic details around unattended death. Please read with care.

I think I’m afraid of dying alone in one of those abandoned houses you see on the news or in those disturbing cleaning documentaries. I live in Japan. And here, lonely deaths (孤独死 kodokushi) aren’t rare. They’re part of everyday life. It’s tragic and haunting: elderly people just… dying quietly, unnoticed, sometimes for weeks or… Read more
June 27, 2025

TRY is the word.

YESSSSSSSSSSSSS !! I try!And that little word “try” makes it all feel less overwhelming. Some days I totally nail it. Other days…..Meh. But I “try” to show up. Honestly, I didn’t even realize how many things I was already doing until this WordPress prompt made me stop and think (so, thank you WordPress for making… Read more
April 24, 2025

STUCK- IN YOUR 30s

Notes from a 30 something Still vibing like it’s 2000, but while paying taxes in Japan! Turning 32 this year feels… surreal. I still have two months to go! But you know what I mean. I’m in my thirties now and still not in the “I’ve made it, I have my life sorted and my… Read more

Alone, Forgotten, and Found Too Late – ⚠️ Trigger Warning: This post discusses death, loneliness, hoarding, and graphic details around unattended death. Please read with care.